Civil Engineer family STEM story time

Challenge families to build a bridge to rescue and elephant from Elephant Island.

Why have family STEM story times in EYFS?

Children’s parents, carers and other family members all help shape children’s ideas about themselves and what they should do with their lives, including what would be a suitable future job for them.

A family STEM story time is an opportunity to introduce STEM careers, ideas and activities in a relaxed and enjoyable way. STEM story time also provides an opportunity to positively model how adults and children can share stories together.

Each session begins with an introduction to a STEM career and the attributes used in the job. There is then a STEM story which introduces a STEM concept or problem to the group. The session then continues with a practical activity based on the concept introduced by the story. This is designed to be completed by an adult and a child working together. They can successfully complete the challenge together, ensuring their experience of STEM is a positive one.

A child sat on their adult's knee, listening to a story.

Bringing families into the setting

For this activity, you’ll invite children’s parents or carers into your setting, so they can work alongside each other.

What you will need

  • Civil engineer poster
  • “Elephant Island” story book and questions
  • An elephant or similar toy(s) for testing – this needs to be heavy enough to make the activity challenging!
  • Paper – plenty for building and experimenting with
  • Tape – a roll per family if possible
  • Construction materials if you want to use these

Duration

  • About 30 minutes
Front cover of Elephant Island by Leo Timmers

Elephant Island is widely available from bookshops and education suppliers.

Key vocabulary

Structure – something that has been built from parts, especially a large building or bridge.

Strengthening – making a structure stronger by spreading out the weight of the elephant across the whole bridge.

Fastening – making sure materials are securely joined together and adding extra strength to the structure where materials join.

Balancing – able to stay upright because weight is equally spread.

Preparation

Do these things before the session

Setting up the room

Think about:

  • Where will you set out your materials so that all families can access them during the activity?
  • We usually spread the equipment around the room on different tables or surfaces so families have enough space for building.
  • We try to make sure we give out a roll of tape to each family.
  • When will you give out your materials?
  • We have found giving out the equipment after reading the story works well, and ensures that everyone can concentrate on listening at the start of the session.
  • Where will your bridge testing area and elephants be?
  • You will need to create a gap of around 20 to 25 cm between two tables or chairs for each testing area.
  • We usually have a few testing areas set up at the front of the room so that we can talk to the families while they are testing.
Ruler balanced on two boxes to show the distance of 25cms between them.

Where will everyone sit?

If you have already had story times with your families you will know what works best in your setting, but if not you may want to consider:

  • Do you want everyone sitting on chairs, or on the floor?
  • Do you want adults to sit on seats, and do you have enough big seats for everyone?
  • Do you want adults and children sitting together?
  • Where will you put pushchairs or prams with sleeping babies?
  • Will you have any children without adults? Where will they sit? Who will help them?
Adults and children sat on chairs in a semi-circle behind children sat on the floor looking at an adult showing a careers poster.

What to do – introductions and story time

Introducing the career

Start the session by showing families the civil engineer poster and telling them that a civil engineer is a job that uses science. If you have already done some of the activities from the civil engineer unit, you could ask the children to explain to their families what a civil engineer does. If this is a new topic, you could ask the families what they think a civil engineer does.

Tell everyone that for this activity, they are going to be like civil engineers.

You could tell the families that civil engineers plan, design, build and manage the construction and upkeep of large structures including buildings roads, bridges, dams, railways, airports and harbours.

Introducing attributes

Introduce the attributes by telling the families that attributes are personal skills or qualities that we already have, or can develop.

You could tell them that civil engineers are:

Creative when they plan and design buildings and structures,

Collaborative when they work together with other professionals to complete projects,

Resilient because their designs can be tricky to get right the first time.

During the activity, the children and adults might also be able to identify where they are using these attributes.

Reading the story

You know the families in your setting and the best way to read a story to them, but to help we have designed these STEM focused questions to use alongside the questioning you would usually use when reading a story.

Front cover of Elephant Island by Leo Timmers

What to do – activity

Step 1

Show the civil engineer poster again and use the attributes in the activity explanation. You could tell the families that they are going to be:

Creative like civil engineers as they are going to design and build a bridge.

Collaborative like civil engineers as the need to work as a family to complete the task.

Resilient because their bridge might not be long enough or strong enough to hold the weight of the elephant the first time, so they will need to try again to get it right.

Step 2

Show the families the gap that they need to bridge for the elephant to be able to escape from Elephant Island.

Tell them that they need to use paper and tape to create the bridge. You could ask one of the children to come and put one piece of paper across the gap and test the strength of the bridge by placing the elephant in the middle. The bridge should immediately collapse.

You can ask the families to think about how they can make a bridge long enough and strong enough for the elephant to cross.

Tell the families that you would like them to test their bridges as often as possible during their construction so that they can check their ideas work before getting too involved in a particular design that may not work. This also gives them plenty of time to improve their bridges and try different designs. Encourage all family members to test the bridges, not just the children.

A stable paper tube bridge across the gap between two boxes being tested with an elephant toy on top of it.

Step 3

While the families are working, you could ask them:

  • How will you make sure your bridge is long enough to bridge the gap?
  • How will you make sure that your bridge is strong enough to hold the elephant?
  • Do you think you bridge is wide enough for the elephant to balance on?
  • How will you fasten your bridge together?

When the families are testing the bridges, you could ask:

  • Why do you think your bridge collapsed?
  • What could you do to make it stronger?
  • Is it sagging in the middle?
  • How could you make your bridge even better?

You might want to make additional construction materials available to your families that they could investigate building bridges with.

A unstable paper bridge across the gap between two boxes collapsing as a toy elephant is placed on it.

Step 4

When the families have completed the challenge, remind them of the attributes: being creative like a civil engineer by designing and building bridges, collaborative by working together to plan, build and test their designs and resilient by improving their designs until their bridges were strong enough for the elephants to cross.

There is a STEM at home activity linked to this activity. This includes more STEM careers information and other bridge building activities for the whole family to try at home.

You could tell the families that if they have enjoyed today’s activity, maybe they could be civil engineers in the future.

The Science

This section is for your information. It’s intended to be useful background – you’re welcome to include it in the session, but we expect you’d more commonly draw on it when children or their families have questions.

How can you stop bridges collapsing?

Bridges are designed to be able to hold a certain weight of vehicles and people that travel over them. If a bridge is not strong enough it might collapse.

The structure of the bridge spreads the effect of the weight across the whole bridge and onto the foundations on land. Some bridges do this by using arches and others use long chains or metal ropes.

The waterfront and bridges of Newcastle-upon-Tyne.

How can we make paper bridges stronger?

Make a concertina! A concertina is made up of a series of triangles. Triangles are one of the best shapes for spreading out weight. Bridges made of triangle sections are called truss bridges.

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